Pickup Artist Secrets Revealed - How To Pick Up Women
by Joseph Matthews

Having trouble picking up women?  Have no fear!  All you need to do is follow a few simple methods to help you get the woman of your dreams!

Do you want to go out and pick up a woman tonight, but have no clue where to start?

Many guys get lots of bad advice about picking up women from their friends and family who know even LESS about how to get a girl than they do.  Even so-called "Dating experts" that you see on TV usually don't know what they're talking about because they have to cater to the feminist media!  (And truth be told, the mainstream media looks down on any tactic that could help guys get laid!)

Understand:  Learning how to pick up women is not a politically-correct topic!

If you want to have success with women TONIGHT, you're going to have to follow some practical advice that works right away.  Lucky for you, I'm about to share some with you right now...

First of all, let's cover what you DON'T need to pick up women.

You DON'T need to look like a "male model."

This is the biggest mistake men make.  You have to realize that close to 85% of women care more about how a man makes them FEEL, rather than how he actually LOOKS.

So if you're insecure about your looks, don't sweat it!  There's still hope.

Next, you DON'T have to drive a fancy car, or spend a lot of money!

Many of the best ladies men I know never spend more than $30 on a date - heck, some of them don't even own a car!  (And if they do, it usually isn't a very nice one!)

Most women don't care how much money you make or spend on them - IF they actually like you!  And a big part of picking up women is to get them to like you, isn't that right?

Third, you DON'T need to be a certain ethnicity or nationality, have big muscles, be famous, or any other thing you can think of.

Understand: Personality trumps every other obstacle you think you have to getting a girl to like you!

If you know the proper way to interact with women, nothing else matters.

Unless you're currently a master pickup artist, you may not have a whole lot of success with women right away when using these tactics - after all, it takes time to practice and learn from your experiences.  But if you actually apply what you've learned, you'll soon find your success with women will skyrocket!

Go out as often as you're able to and talk to as many women as you can, especially when you're starting out. You don't have to go to high-pressure environments like nightclubs where it's difficult to pick up women, but there is no better "practice ground" in my opinion, simply because there are SO MANY women out there to pick up.

Despite where you choose to go, you need to set aside some time every day to go out and pick up women - you'll get better the more times you do it!

When you're first starting, you might not have a whole lot of success with the ladies.  But over time, as your experience builds, your confidence will grow.  Every success and failure you have is a learning experience meant to make you better at picking up women.

And the more experience you have, the more likely it is you'll be able to MASTER the art of picking up women!

And what you're doing when you go out to clubs and bars to pick up women is gaining experience!

You're going to want to try and look as good as you can when you go out to gain this valuable experience with women.

(Notice I didn't say "good looking." I said "look good." There's a difference. You can't control what you look like, but you CAN control your appearance - your hair, your tan, your clothes, etc.)

Dress for success: Wear clothing that fits you, that's color-coordinated and looks good on you. If you have fashion-conscious friends who can help you pick out a wardrobe (particularly if they're women), now's the time to recruit them.

Dressing nicely to meet women is not mandatory - you don't NEED to do it.  However, it will make the process of meeting women much easier (women do like men who take pride in their appearance).  Also, the nicer your dress, the more confident you'll feel!

Be on the lookout for opportunities to do pickup. You can find attractive women just about anywhere. And if you notice that she's given you the eye, it would almost be a sin not to start talking to her!

Remember - ever good pickup follows a very simple structure.  This means there's a series of steps to picking up women you can actually repeat time and time again and get the same results.

The structure is:

Find a woman.

Meet her.

Gain Rapport.

Build Attraction.

That's it! Four simple steps. You'll find that if you're able to effectively meet women and gain rapport with them, you can build attraction quite easily.

Joseph Mathews is the author of "The Art of Approaching"