The three most common Seduction Techniques

By Malcolm Penworthy 

There are three basic seduction techniques that can be mastered by a pick up artist. Best to be good at all of them and pick the one that best fits the situation.  Different types of women will require slightly different strategies.

1) Charm and Flattery.
This one is that seems the most obvious. However, it is NOT the one most recommended by the experts.This method can work if done correctly. 

The overall strategy: allot of flattery and a big show of wealth and power. That would mean: an expensive car , fancy suit, obvious signs of wealth. If you’ve got those things then more power to you. The reality is that most men are not rich enough to pull that off.

The flattery part can work too but only at certain times with certain ladies. The strategy for seducing a woman who already knows shes gorgeous is in fact the opposite of flattery.  Many experts teach ways to plant self doubt in her mind so that she will need your approval. 

Also, flattery might not serve to enhance your power and status. It could even lower it if you seem to be overly impressed by her.  So the charm and flattery route may not be the best way to go. 

2) Neural Linguistic Programming or NLP based techniques: These are techniques based on a brach of behavioral psychology known by the acronym: NLP.  It uses patterns of speech to plant ideas and images in the woman’s mind in order to influence her feelings. 

Often set scripts are practiced by the seducer.  There are many conflicting opinions out there about the usefulness of these techniques.  Some systems are based entirely on NLP others don’t recommend them.

Overall NLP techniques are effective but can not stand on their own. There is still the work of meeting the girl, gaining report etc. But as one tool in a larger tool box NLP is worth having. 

3) The Alpha Male strategy:  This one requires the most work on ones ‘inner game” and therefore has more far reaching applications then seduction alone.  Being the Alpha male can become an almost spiritual pursuit for some. 

The Alpha male learns how to control social situations so that he is the dominant player. It is probably the most effective but not the easiest to master.

It's requires allot of work on the "inner game" as it is called. The alpha male must have the right mental state whie in pursuit. At the same time one must study social dynamics. So it has an external component as well.

If you are serious about improving your game you had best learn about all of these techniques. After all, Knowledge is power. ;-)

Happy hunting!

-Malcolm Penworthy